In the era of cyber-physical-social systems, research lacks a comprehensive framework to optimize dynamic coordination strategies for electric vehicles (EVs) to enhance modern power distribution networks (MPDNs) resilience. Public studies have not comprehensively addressed the impact of intelligent transportation systems (ITS) and smart charging systems (SCS) on MPDN resilience strategies after rare events. To bridge this gap, a two-stage EVs coordination framework is proposed to consider MPDN smart restoration. The first stage involves a novel proactive EV prepositioning model to optimize EV prepositioning plans before a rare event in order to enhance MPDN survivability during the immediate aftermath of the event. The second stage involves an advanced spatial-temporal EV dispatching model to maximize the number of available EVs for discharge, thereby improving MPDN recovery after a rare event. The proposed framework includes an information system facilitating dynamic data exchange between EVs and ITS/SCS automated systems and introduces a novel geographic graph to optimize EV routes between charging points. Effectiveness of the framework is assessed on a modified IEEE 123 node test feeder incorporating real-world transportation and charging infrastructure. The results suggest that significant enhancement in MPDN resilience is possible with smart restoration strategies. Sensitivity analysis specifically demonstrates that integrating recently invented technologies of the smart charging systems and automated systems potentially provides significant benefits if dynamic coordination strategies are employed in MPDNs.