Due to a statistical fluke we arrived very early to the cosmic-life gathering. We can only sit here and watch the stars, mostly alone, and imagine what an amazing party it will be. Bummer.  Stars less massive than the Sun provide a hostile environment for Life on a planet. They tend to be more ``active'', "active'',  which could prevent long-lasting planetary atmospheres. Sun-like stars might then be the best compromise for Life, and that's why ``here'' and ``now''. And for some unknown reason,