Participant 3 (Ti)
Ti is a female student who is 22 years old, last semester at a state
university in Semarang. Ti and her big family are moslem with strong
belief. Ti is a single child in her family. Starting from elementary
school, she had known that she is not foster child. She got the
information from her relatives. Ti could not receive for being a foster
child. Ti’s friends were naughty, they like narcotic, drugs and free
sex. Even though her parents gave her advice, she still played together
with her gangs because she felt comfort staying around her naughty
friends. Ti behaved like naughty girl to provoke her mother to say that
she is a foster child, but her mother did not say that. Because of her
naughty behavior, her mother sent her to moslem boarding school when she
had graduated from Junior High School. The other reason is her family
whose strong belief in religion and good moslem.
Ti’s parents spoiled her when she was a child, her parents are always
fulfilled what she wanted. In other hand, her parent is authoritarian.
Ti had to obey what her parents ask. If Ti against her parent, she would
get physical punishment. For example, her father hit her using banana
tree branch when Ti against her father; even her father used sandals or
wood even though sometimes it was overshot. After Ti received physical
punishment, she used to go to her aunt’s house and stayed there for a
long time until her father visited her to apologize. Starting from Ti’s
childhood, she used to see tiff in her family. The big family from her
father did not like her mother, especially her aunt. Ti’s mother used to
argue with her aunt then her father took side on her sister. Even her
father said to Ti that father would divorce and asked Ti with whom Ti
would live. SSCT reveals that Ti had a problem in her family. Ti does
not have any family, and she thought that her parents unusually treated
her.