In contemporary years I look to come right here generally  once I wish to provide vent to an disagreeable drawback (and judging by the few  and some distance between posts, one would readily draw the conclusion that i  am in general happy - and i'm! By and large).    About 20 months or so in the past, a younger man burst upon  my life. He seemed naive and claimed to have "adored me from afar"  for over 4 years! This to me used to be good...... A revelation - he had it  appears worked in a department adjacent to mine and that i didn't even  comprehend of his existence. He was fairly more youthful, now not as good learn  / articulate, typical to under common grammar (to English Nazi me, this was  once a big deal!)...However he seemed to actually care.    I ought to also admit he ticked the field on a number of  youngster-like recommendations I had (and had notion because of the passage of  time I needed to provide them up). Matters like falling in love with only a  glance (for those of you who recognize me, be aware of that i'm no looker!),  staying "loyal" to at least one individual regardless of their  emotions, ability to provide selflessly with out disturbing in return and so  forth and many others..    As time handed more and more of his "real" personality  got here to light - he had lied about each single thing. Without exception. His  defense? I wanted to "get" you. To assert I was once pissed off would  be hanging it frivolously. I wanted OUT (never having dedicated I felt I was  good within my rights to take action)Then started out the name calling...And  blackmailing. Again and again. Lets Lyrics  is the best for best song lyrics.  In no way took it seriously so it saved  getting worse. (One would wonder what was once incorrect with me to place up  with such an untenable main issue).Actually? I do not know. I suppose I kept  hoping there could be some redeeming characteristics in the younger man.  Regrettably whilst he had flashes of "niceness" - inherently all he  was is a very self indulged spoilt brat. A way of entitlement like i have under  no circumstances seen before - just because he wants xyz it needs to be so.  Else... An ego so large that it quite often provoked him to be demeaning of  others. An over glorified sense of self which led him to believe he in no way  does any fallacious! Even when irrefutable proof is awarded expects simply with  the aid of his saying the word "sorry" the whole thing shall be again  to "normal" <read the way HE wants>, pronto! Others feelings be  dammed. Claims to "love" on one hand however treats the smallest  undertaking for the cherished one as a chore... Troublesome work.